Tuesday, July 26, 2011

Cheaters, Liars, And Well....The Rest..

When you think about someone that fits all of the above qualities, the image you get may be yourself, or someone you may be associated with. I myself fit the profile, but then again so do the people I'm around. As Edith Piaf once said, "Practically all the relationships I know are based on a foundation of lies and mutually accepted delusion." Everyone must first learn to lie, in order to trust. It's what I constantly tell myself when going into a messy situation. For girls, the words cheater and liar may bring back an old boyfriend and such as,  but for guys, it may bring back the days when they had it all. You know...the feeling you get when all your 'dickhead friends' tell you "YOU DA MAN!"...Yes..and as exciting as the feeling may be, no one likes watching you go through it. Jealousy may be a reason, or just plain disgust for the person. For those people who want to know the various definitions of what makes someone a liar...feel free to click the link..cause that leads you straight to the dictionary; http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/lie .
  A person who constantly lies to me has to go down on the hatred list on my book; and to stop beating around the bush, with every rule there is an exception. To be honest, anyone who despises something always has someone who they can't live without so they have to tolerate whatever their faults are. I have to put up with a liar by birth...or a professional liar as the person likes calling it. After all, "it's not like they have a choice" <speaking of which..that is my favorite quote of all time. And let me just say this about it. EVERYONE HAS A CHOICE; YOU MAKE YOUR LIFE THE WAY YOU WANT TO LIVE IT, AND IF SOMEONE IS TRYING TO LIVE IT FOR YOU, THEN SCREW IT, CAUSE IT'S NOT YOUR LIFE ANYMORE!! Doesn't it make you feel all EMPTY inside knowing that you have no control over what you wanna be in life? Doesn't it sicken you that being controlled is the only thing you know how to live through because in life you have come to know the subject so well?; And one final question, Doesn't it hurt to have to come to terms with a feeling you detest so much? Answer to all of them:YES. As for the rest of the people in the world, make mistakes...the faster you learn from them, the faster you stop hurting everyone around you. No one is perfect, and although it may be something that's hard to admit, no one in this world is perfect, and sooner or later, those who may have once become your enemies thanks to your lies will forgive you. Just make sure that you make your time worthwhile.When forgiveness is granted it is not so that you can go back to your old ways.It's so that you can prove that you are a different person and you are ready to take a new step in whatever type of relationship you are in. So next time you feel like you can't move on because your guilt is eating you alive, all it takes is just one question to the person you hurt so much. I'm not in any way saying that forgiveness is guaranteed, because the things we do sometimes leave the deepest scars and we don't realize it. But everything in this life is worth a shot, so why not go for it. Anyway.. MORAL OF THE STORY IS: HAVE YOUR FUN, BUT DON'T MESS WITH EVERYONE AROUND YOU BECAUSE IT IS FOR A FACT KNOW THAT YOU WILL REGRET IT.
 :)..Toodles...and so long until the next blog! Eat lots of ice cream..it warms the heart..kisses..martha!<3
   
PS: I LOVE THIS PICTURE BECAUSE IT REMINDS ME OF EVERYTHING I'VE DONE AND EVERY OBSTACLE I'VE OVERCOME THROUGHOUT MY LIFE , IT SHOWS ME THAT GETTING PAST THE SMALL THINGS IS THE BIGGEST CHALLENGE OF ALL , BECAUSE THE BIG ONES WILL ALWAYS BE THERE REMINDING YOU OF THE TINY STEPS YOU TOOK TO GET TO IT. :)

Friday, December 17, 2010

New Blogger?

Okay.. so blogging may not be my "thing:.. but it's worth a shot...SO...WHAT EXACTLY IS IT YOU WRITE ABOUT WHEN YOU BLOG? I'll take a guess... life...So let me tell you a bit about mine...AP courses are a drag.. high school is a trap waiting to catch you... and i believe thats all my world revolves around... so maybe we can work something out... Yet then again, you don't know me at all.. you don't even know what i look like... so this idea of you getting to know me...and me getting to somewhat in a way know you.... might not really work out... Hereee weee gooo!!!!!